Most lifeforms react to their environment in ways that are programmed by DNA. These reactions are said to be "hard wired." In Silicon based life, this might be a simple spamming bot in a chatroom, or even a fairly complex worm.
Advanced lifeforms also learn, from their parents, community, and play, so that by adulthood, each individual reacts uniquely to environmental circumstance in ways that are a combination of their hard wired and learned behaviors. If silicon based life has reached this point, we are seeing just the earliest stages of it in superbots like GOOGLE.
One thing holding back the evolution of silicon life forms is the absence of sex. Sex allows DNA to produce unique individuals, and variety greatly increases the survival rate. Genetic traits that result in successful offspring are preserved.
In humans, which we like to think of as THE most advanced carbon based life form, sexual function is very much controlled by the programming in our DNA.
Women are hard wired to willingly have sex for one of two reasons:
1. Love
2. Money
Love is probably plan A, although DNA does not "plan" it just does a whole bunch of stuff and throws away what fails. A female finds love with a male, and they bond, the female providing a nest, and the male providing food, etc. for the next generation...
Money is just a backup. If there is no husband for the children, the female can trade sex for money.
Men are hard wired to desire sex so strongly that they will provide one or the other.
Under plan A, he follows his cock into a bonded partnership. A human bond so strong that all successful cultures, religions, and political systems provide ceremony, blessing and paperwork fees.
The backup system makes the guy so horny that he will pay for part time sex.
Either way, the kids get fed.
When i share this with girls i get lots of... well sometimes i have sex cause i am drunk, or "just wanna have fun" but, even though these are not hard wired responses, the underlying motivation for partner choice will be suitability as a husband.
So, in order to satisfy our cocks, we (the editorial we, this is an opinion piece, after all) must build on one of the two hard wired motivations of the female to get her to be receptive.
Early in life i realized that i would never have enough money to buy hookers, even at the monthly discount rates of my fantasies, paying for sex would be out of the question. My only hope, then, of having sex with a female partner was love. But what makes a woman love?
100 Women: the life, the book, the movie.
Naturally my original goal was not 100, but One... it was later that i set the goal of 100... nice round number... seemed achievable...
When i had reached up around woman #35 i could still recount names and details, and i stopped counting at some point.
chapter titles, in no particular order except inspiration and memory.
the ballerina
there's no such thing as bad sex, not.
french doors.
the actress
mercy fuck
Hmmm.. at mercy fuck i started getting a lot of different ladies. So i guess being pathetic helps.
One summer i won the male pole dancing contest two nights in a row, i lost the third to a guy that was totally un-coordinated. I talked to the gal running the contest and she told me she knew he would win the minute she saw him, and explained how strongly women reacted to little imperfections in men.
I find it difficult to be stimulated by one breast, no matter how perfect. It is that symmetry that defines beauty, and prevents the left hand from jealousy of the right.
Beauty, to male DNA, is perfection in form. Men are attracted by physical beauty as it is
defined by health, and genetics. If a girl is beautiful, nothing else matters..
men are totally visual.
Men, therefore, are pretty simple sexually. Show a healthy man a beautiful woman, and he is turned on.
A woman's sexual responses are a bit more complex, as illustrated by the wonderful sculpture depicted on the right. (if you know where this came from, the artist's name, etc. please email me. it's one of the best artworks i have ever seen, i came across it on someone's web page, and they said they found it on another's. The image is too small to read the artist's name.
So you can compare a man to a flashlight. Although most men are actually much more complex than a flashlight. Men are probably more like a table lamp. Some few even with advanced functions like touch sensitivity.
Women, are comparable to the PSTN in complexity. In order to obtain sex from a woman, she must be adjusted according to a complex set of rules. These rules are ever changing and men are not allowed to know what they are. A word or phrase that worked last week is a big no-no this week.
So, in order to successfully mate, a male must somehow decode the female matrix, using a combination of his hard wired responses, his learned responses, his knowledge of cultural mating ritual, and his understanding of female response, both hard wired and learned.
Women, like the females of most other species, are the bearers of the next generation of DNA, and wired very specifically to produce successful children. Her most important criteria in the selection of a mate is his suitability as a father, in both the evolutionary and the cultural sense.
"Well," men say, "women just want money," but money is a small part of the selection criteria a woman uses.
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Godless Societies always FailHumans needthe three
Y's: dietY
communitY
familY
this trinity is a long lived theme in religious thought.
you are lifeform #
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